Some readers might remember that a few months ago I wrote a column detailing how a marriage could flourish if each partner said "I love you" to each other at least once a day.
I think a list of acceptable compliments might be helpful. Here are some of my personal standbys: This meal could be worse. You’re still your old self (with emphasis on the word “old”).
Did you make this all by yourself? Some people might think this is a good idea. This ——could use a little more ——- (Fill in the blanks).
Whose bright idea was this, anyway? Most people would realize ———. Well, I didn’t vote for———- (said with a roll of the eyes)
I bet the dog would like some of this. Nice shirt: did you look in the mirror when you bought it? Oops, someone forgot to take out the cat! I think it’s your turn to ——-.
I needed this for my sister who complained I don’t say that many good things about her, so I sent what I thought was a nice gesture with 3 compliments & when we spoke at a later date, she said “ could you only think of 3 good things about me?” I can’t win!’
Extra nice column. Spouse and I would say "I love you" daily, but not so much give compliments. I don't know why. (P.S. "looking at my notes" cracked me up😆. That's a lot of us! P.P.S. It's touching how you treasure your wife.)
If I could only see Linda’s face while you are saying these things, Nick!!!! I’m sure my imagination is no funnier than real life!!!! Keep us all laughing - it’s so much better than screaming at the tv when the orange one is on!!!!!
Just wanted to tell you my husband and I have been married 42 years. We say I love you many times a day. We compliment each other frequently. of course mostly little things. We kiss each other a lot. Y3s, I recommend it all
My wife and I have a deal, when she's had enough of me she will ask me,"don't you need to go to the boat". I of course loving husband reply, yes dear the boat does need some repair. Always the truth, as boats do need a lot of work. Works great to keep the peace. Thanks Nick
Another winner Nick! Thank you. In times like these we need a good chuckle to get through the noise. We really appreciate you.
I think a list of acceptable compliments might be helpful. Here are some of my personal standbys: This meal could be worse. You’re still your old self (with emphasis on the word “old”).
Did you make this all by yourself? Some people might think this is a good idea. This ——could use a little more ——- (Fill in the blanks).
Whose bright idea was this, anyway? Most people would realize ———. Well, I didn’t vote for———- (said with a roll of the eyes)
I bet the dog would like some of this. Nice shirt: did you look in the mirror when you bought it? Oops, someone forgot to take out the cat! I think it’s your turn to ——-.
Very Funny, You really are a goof.
I needed this for my sister who complained I don’t say that many good things about her, so I sent what I thought was a nice gesture with 3 compliments & when we spoke at a later date, she said “ could you only think of 3 good things about me?” I can’t win!’
Extra nice column. Spouse and I would say "I love you" daily, but not so much give compliments. I don't know why. (P.S. "looking at my notes" cracked me up😆. That's a lot of us! P.P.S. It's touching how you treasure your wife.)
Wonderful column. And you are so handsome!
And your compliments to her? I laughed out loud….. laughing together is on your list ,right?😂
One of your best, Nick!
You are So wise Nick! And funny. 🤩 Thank you.
I LOVE your wife! :-))
(Just found your column - yay!)
If I could only see Linda’s face while you are saying these things, Nick!!!! I’m sure my imagination is no funnier than real life!!!! Keep us all laughing - it’s so much better than screaming at the tv when the orange one is on!!!!!
I love your essays.
Just wanted to tell you my husband and I have been married 42 years. We say I love you many times a day. We compliment each other frequently. of course mostly little things. We kiss each other a lot. Y3s, I recommend it all
My wife and I have a deal, when she's had enough of me she will ask me,"don't you need to go to the boat". I of course loving husband reply, yes dear the boat does need some repair. Always the truth, as boats do need a lot of work. Works great to keep the peace. Thanks Nick
Great column.
Your wife is a sweetie! I would love to meet her-she can give me compliment ideas I can use on my hubby!! Ex-“wow! You almost wiped your muddy shoes!”
You’re right, Nick; it DOES work!!